I’ve been pondering the idea of the lesbian hookup for time.

Mostly because we cannot locate a steady stream of lesbians thinking about hookups (vs. monogamous relationships). And never for not enough attempting. I really do not flatter myself on other fronts, namely the monogamous dating relationship that I am someone every lesbian in NYC (and beyond) wants to be with in any capacity, but there is in fact a certain steady interest in me.

I recognize you can find pouches associated with the lesbian community where being poly is an easy method of life, frequently also while having a main partner: The fat dyke/trans community, the BDSM community, the sex-positive activist/erotica writer/advice columnist/blogger audience and stuff like that. But, for simple (though perhaps maybe not vanilla) solitary lesbians that are neither supporters nor joiners, there was a void that is vast the dyke community, such as for example it really is, into the arena of casual sex/casual relationships.

I became (luckily!) with another lesbian with the exact same causal sexual leanings as mine one other evening and she said she have been searching for and researching casual lesbian sex for several years and found a void that is similar. She explained this indicates in her experience most lesbians don’t enjoy sex with actually ladies. And, although I’ve never pinpointed it myself or stated the matter in those exact terms that can also be my experience. It’s also my experience that a lot of lesbians don’t understand the technical even facets of lesbian intercourse, that is really aisle search disappointing. Read more