Eight reasons internet dating is utterly bogus.

If you’re anything like me… that is, single (alas), working full-time, looking after a family members, perhaps a moms and dad or two, and desperately cramming in just a little “me” time… you’ve got valuable small leftover for dating. You’ve got also less for tripping along in life dreaming about opportunity encounters.

That’s because opportunities for opportunity encounters are few in number.

Drifting around a display during the bay area Museum of Modern Art? Happens when every 3 years, realistically.

In a full life filled with w o rk, buddies, next-door neighbors, house life, care-taking, reading, writing, climbing, and hobbies, opportunities for opportunity encounters are extremely unusual. Read more